Real Men are…
NOT EFFEMINATE….
Gen 2:21-22…God took Eve OUT OF Adam…so everything that Eve was…Adam was no longer…So everything a woman is…a man isn’t…everything a man is…a woman isn’t…
So there are great differences between men and women…and it’s not that one came from Mars and the other Venus….we actually came from the same place….Woman was simply TAKEN OUT OF man….
1. Men Walk Different / Physically & Spiritually
Men were designed to lead…to be out front….to blaze a new trail…to provide the “where we are going” Women were designed to walk ALONGSIDE…not behind…Men do not want to follow…We don’t want to wait on others…We want to lead…But we want our wives by our side…supporting…walking w/ us…
2. Men talk different
Men say…..I think we should…. Women say….I feel like we should…. Our 1 track mind and our stubbornness can be misunderstood as insensitivity…it’s not…We are men…we don’t think or talk like you…Women like the mushy details…men want the bare facts…
Here is an interesting thought….”The More Emotional Women Get…the More Rational Men Get”….chew on that for a bit…
3. Men Act different
When is the last time you saw a woman approach another woman and punch her in the arm and ask her how she is doing….Men are naturally more aggressive and competitive…we want to win…we like to wrestle….Me and several friends…got together once and had our own personal boxing match….it was a blast…women get together to paint nails and pamper each other…men somehow build relationship by punching each other…it was a blast…Men act and behave differently…it is not always wrong for your boys to be aggressive…they need to get that aggression out…
4. Men Think Different…
Men for the most part are built to be decisive….firm…once we make up our mind we have to be firm….stand strong…Women are more flowing…more indecisive…can often change their minds quickly…Women are soft…pliable…more flexible…women are effeminate….
Men are built to be strong and have strength…we are designed to be the protectors of our families…
Here is a thought….Even in most Homosexual Relationships….one will often take the male role and one the feminine role….Even when we are wrong we are still trying to be right….
More to come….thoughts?
1 Comment
October 23, 2008 at 4:49 pm
man- God’s rought draft before making his masterpiece: woman! lol